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According to Robert Fulghum, author of the poem "All I ReallyNeed To Know I Learned In Kindergarten", kindergarten prepared you for a positive life with members of society. Of course, those early lessons were also taught at home. Furthermore, there were others influenced by crucial realities that were also addressed by parents. For instance, fully aware that not all members of society behave appropriately, parents recognize that some basic rules must be in place for their children's protection, such as 'Don't talk to strangers'. But now you are all grown up. It's time to earn a living. How deeply ingrained is that warning? Does it interfere with how you are going to earn a living? Does it influence your choices that ultimately determine whether you eke out a living or design a life, whether you merely survive or thrive? Fact is, the people who have the most freedom in our capitalist system are the top salesmen and saleswomen. They are able to write their own ticket. To be able to do that however, they know that talking to strangers is one of the most important things that must do. A top salesperson recognizes that wealth comes from and through others. They operate on the knowledge that the more people they help get what they want, the more sales they will make. The more sales they make, the more they will have control of their financial situation. However, not wanting to be a salesperson is a common random chat objection people voice when faced with the possibility of becoming business owners. "I am not a salesperson, I can't sell", they say. But do you know what I hear? I hear them saying, without using the words, "My mother told me: 'Don't talk to strangers'. But overcoming it may be quite simple if the motivation to find a way out of the rat race, not to mention the lack of security in the job environment, is strong enough. If you want to be more and have more, there is a simple way to get around the 'Don't Talk To Strangers' rule.

Have you ever found that you meet someone, your room mate in college for instance, that became close to you after the initial fear of not knowing them? Well, that is indicative of what can happen if you open the doors of your heart to others. Of course, since you are aware that not all members of society may be as responsible, as respectful or as honest as you are, always exercise caution when you are considering opening your heart. Good sense should always prevail and trust your instincts. But once the character uncertainty is not an issue, then a stranger is a just a friend you have not yet met.